And, in fact, it sounds to me like a happy medium for you with what you want to do per your politics and being a consumer of porn is to shift away from being part of using porn as a consumer, and just have whatever fantasies you have in your head, no? As I mentioned further up on this page, in general, ejaculating is not always something people can always voluntarily control. What is going on: Now i cant seem to shake the bad things I've absorbed from porn. This is called pornography, or porn. What you're asking about is most typically called female ejaculation even though not everyone with a vulva identifies as female, nor does everyone who identifies as female have a vulvaand often colloquially called "squirting.
A boyfriend said that he dated a woman who orgasmed so much that she sprayed, like water gushing out forcefully.
Chick Has Orgasm on LIVE TV with Joy Behar
If, in the sex the two of you have, you're having times where you are very aroused, if -- not always, but this is the usual route with ejaculation -- targeted clitoral and g-spot stimulus feels really great to you and you both want to explore that, and if you are a person who is capable of ejaculating, at some point you probably will do so. This is one of those areas where the research is still ongoing, and where we can't draw too many conclusions just yet: He totally flipped and ended up spitting at me. If you don't like how it feels, you can try not bearing down with sexual pleasure or orgasm, or "holding it," physically the same way you hold urine when you have to pee but can't. For many, the best stimulus of that area -- and what we mean when we say "targeted" stimulus -- usually will happen with toys or fingers, though some folks find a penis can provide that kind of stimulation as well. By the way, if your Dad volunteers at a sex ed class, sounds like he might be a pretty good person for you to ask for support around this and talk to?